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10 actions that totally ruin the first meeting

10 actions that totally ruin the first meeting

Let’s be honest, the first meeting is not something easy. Forget the word 'Be yourself'. At least the first meeting requires an imposition. One of life's most complex problems is finding the right balance.

Here are 10 totally weird things people often do on first dates.

1. To head into the food

Ok, you went out to eat, but you also went out to talk, to get to know each other better. It is still a good idea to maintain eye contact while listening and it has not gone out of fashion. It is unacceptable to enter your plate with turin.

2. Behaving as if someone has given you a microphone and you are on a podium.

To avoid inconvenience on the first date, it is better not to talk about politics or religion. Make sure you do not overpower the other person while discussing something you are enthusiastic about.

One person can learn a lot about another in the first seven seconds of a meeting. Most of us know the importance of maintaining good personal hygiene and dressing professionally, but sometimes we need a slight push in the right direction.

4. Drink like you are in a club.

On a first date, it is natural to drink one or two drinks to relax a bit. An excellent local beer would be great.

5. Behavior of a wingman (or wingwoman).

It is your right to leave a meeting if she or he has taken a sister, brother or friend with her. You do not even have to find an excuse and run away.

6. Mos i thuaj çfarë të hajë.

Nuk ka problem nëse dikush më thotë se çfarë të ha, edhe në një takim të parë. Problemi është do të më imponohet. Kur është vegan dhe shan mishin për shembull.

7. Kthimi i bisedës në një rrëfim.

Dëshira për t'i bërë përshtypje partnerit është arsyeja e zakonshme që individët flasin pa pushim për veten e tyre në takimin e parë.

8. Të sillesh si një maniak dashurie.

Shumë njerëz janë shumë hezitues ose të frikësuar për të shkuar kaq larg. Mos i pyet se kur do të ndalojnë përdorimin e Tinder tani që po takohen ekskluzivisht me ty. Mos pyet nëse ata janë të disponueshëm për të takuar prindërit e tu nesër mbrëma. Mos u sillni sikur keni qenë beqar për dhjetë vjet, edhe nëse keni qenë. Nuk duket mirë.

9. Të qenit me vetëbesim të tepërt

First dates can be nervous, but it is perfectly normal to feel a little anxious. Try to learn as much as possible about him, but do not show your intelligence on the first date. Keep a steady pace while walking with the flow. Excessive self-confidence will ruin your overall image.

10. Do not steal his first kiss

You will say goodbye and she is leaving. Do not kiss without approval. If you do not want today, do not take it personally.