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What to consider if you want to get back with your ex

What to consider if you want to get back with your ex
Can you give love a second chance and get back with your ex? The subject is quite delicate especially if he broke your heart and you needed time to recover.

So what do you do when he appears in front of you ready to start over?
Let's start from something basic: if he is an ex, there will be a reason. No matter how painful the breakup may have been, there is always a reason why the relationship ends. Be it betrayal, dissatisfaction of one of the two or the end of feeling: what led to the end is something real.

So why try again? Well, because they say that the heart is not commanded, and it may happen that the feelings for the old partner do not fade. Maybe you put them away somewhere, in a small corner of your heart, but when you see it appear ... everything suddenly comes back!

So you start to doubt whether the breakup was a good idea and you start to think that you can give your old romance a second chance. But is it really a good idea?

Tips for not making mistakes
First take a breath and don't make hasty decisions. Seeing him made your heart skip a beat and if his declaration of love was powerful, that doesn't mean he should be given a second chance. Take the time you need to think it through and assess the situation.

Think again about why it ended
If everything had been perfect your relationship would not have ended. So it's worth asking yourself why it ended. The reasons that led to the end of the relationship may now be just a memory, but they risk repeating themselves once you get back into your relationship routine. In this case, the risk of saying goodbye again - with all the consequences it brings - is quite high. So ask yourself if you are really capable of going further and considering this.

Reflektoni për arsyet e afrimit
Një shans i dytë në dashuri është i mundshëm, por themelet për të rifilluar një lidhje aty ku e latë duhet të jenë të forta. Jeni i sigurt që ish-i juaj nuk ju është kthyer vetëm nga mërzia apo nga ndjenja e vetmisë? Nëse keni përshtypjen se ai është kthyer tek ju vetëm sepse nuk ka mundësi të tjera, largohuni për të shmangur një zhgënjim tjetër.

Ji i sinqertë me veten
Ideja për t'u rikthyer me një ish është super romantike për shumë prej nesh. Na rikthen në idenë e atij shpirti binjak nga i cili nuk mund të qëndrojmë larg dhe që, sido që të shkojë, do ta takojmë përsëri. Për një moment, përpiquni t'i lini mënjanë ëndrrat për të reflektuar me qetësi për këtë çështje.

A second chance at love can only work in one case: if you and your ex worked on yourselves, while you were apart, somehow solving the problems that were there before. Otherwise, despite the initial euphoria, the new relationship can end again and in the worst way.