Old sayings are often ingrained in our brains. But some should stop, says dating expert Rachel DeAlto. When it comes to dating, if you want to find a long-term partner, it can help to abandon the "opposites attract" mindset.
"Everyone thinks that opposites attract, but the reality is that similarities are what you can build a foundation on," she says.
Three values in particular can determine whether a relationship will be long-lasting, according to her.
Finances, family and lifestyle
Many people confuse personality and values. Two people who have completely different personalities can be suitable for each other. However, their values and goals must align.
Successful couples typically have the following values in common, says DeAlto:
Finances: They agree on how they want to spend their money
Family: There is a shared vision of how they plan to start a family or take care of their family
Lifestyle: They like to spend time in the same activities.
